The Quiet Warrior Podcast with Serena Low

34. People call me boring: what should I do?

October 09, 2023 Serena Low, Introvert Coach for Quiet Achievers and Quiet Warriors
The Quiet Warrior Podcast with Serena Low
34. People call me boring: what should I do?
Show Notes

Do people tell you that you’re boring?

Before being too quick to assume they are right (or wrong!), let’s use this as an opportunity to reflect.

  • Does someone saying I’m boring make me boring?
  • What does it mean to be boring?
  • What makes someone interesting?
  • Is it about getting out of the house more, having hobbies, doing fun and interesting things, meeting new people, learning a new skill?


The key to being interesting is ENTHUSIASM.

  • When you care enough about something, you will have something to say.
  • Recognize when you’re in the wrong circles or conversations.
  • You may feel bored and tune out of discussions because you’re not interested in what they’re talking about.
  • Look for ways to tune in to discussions where you can make a contribution by listening, noticing, and remembering - all ways we activate our introvert strengths.
  • Look for groups where your kindred spirits are more likely to gather.
  • Remember that you are responsible for the energy you bring.
  • Bring curiosity, bring fascination, bring a spirit of service.


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This episode was edited by Aura House Productions