34. People call me boring: what should I do?

Do people tell you that you’re boring?

Before being too quick to assume they are right (or wrong!), let’s use this as an opportunity to reflect.

• Does someone saying I’m boring make me boring?
• What does it mean to be boring?
• What makes someone interesting?
• Is it about getting out of the house more, having hobbies, doing fun and interesting things, meeting new people, learning a new skill?

The key to being interesting is ENTHUSIASM.

• When you care enough about something, you will have something to say.
• Recognize when you’re in the wrong circles or conversations.
• You may feel bored and tune out of discussions because you’re not interested in what they’re talking about.
• Look for ways to tune in to discussions where you can make a contribution by listening, noticing, and remembering - all ways we activate our introvert strengths.
• Look for groups where your kindred spirits are more likely to gather.
• Remember that you are responsible for the energy you bring.
• Bring curiosity, bring fascination, bring a spirit of service.

Here’s how I can support you further:

• Schedule a virtual coffee chat on LinkedIn
• Meet fellow introverts for specially curated outings in Melbourne: Quiet Women Circle (women-only) and Introverts Around the World
• Find fellow introverts on facebook: Global Introvert Network 
• Get introvert-empowering tips on instagram: @serenalow_quietwarriorcoach 

This episode was edited by Aura House Productions